For the newly, & nearly, wed, it is always important to have stationery on hand for the ever-important thank you notes. A hand-written thank you note is not only appreciated when it comes to engagement, shower, & wedding gifts, it is necessary. Etiquette on when to send thank you notes is a little scattered. The popular belief is the bride & groom have one year to send thank you notes, because guests have the same amount of time to send a gift. According to Emily Post, all thank you notes should be written within three months of the receipt of the gift. If it were up to Ms. Post, you would write a thank you note on the same day {this may sound like crazy talk, but Rich & I went to his Aunt & Uncle's 50th Anniversary on Saturday night & we received a thank you note on Tuesday. Just saying...}.
If you are getting married, stay on top of your thank you notes & try to send one when you receive this gift. Stay organized by keeping a list of guests at each event where you may receive gifts {an engagement party, shower, the wedding...} & have someone record what you received as you open the gifts {as my sister's maid-of-honor, I did this at her shower}. Once you send the thank you note, check them off. I think it is also nice to write a note to guests you did not receive gifts from, but attended & helped celebrate.
Other people who should receive a thank you note includes your attendants, anyone who hosted a party or shower for you, people who help to entertain out-of-town guests, others who lent a helping hand before, during, or after your wedding, & any of your suppliers or vendors that went above & beyond.
Be sure to personalize your note, writing their names & the gift they gave you & how you plan to use it. If it is before the wedding, be sure to add how excited you are to celebrate with them or if it is after the wedding, tell them how much it meant to have them there.
As you can see from all the examples above, thank you notes do not have to match your wedding invitation suite {though that is very nice!}. Customized notes can say anything from "Thank you", your new last name {if that may be the case}, or initials, or something more creative. The bottom custom set happens to be for Rich & myself. The letters of our first names are next to each other in the alphabet, so I did a blind deboss of the letters before "R" & part of "T" after "S" & I printed "RS" in sage green to coordinate with one of our wedding colors. We have only received one gift from my aunts & uncles, but we stand ready to write! I am determined to stay on top of our thank yous. As more gifts come in & I get a little behind, I am going to set a goal of writing them each Sunday night.
Now of course you may not be getting married, but custom stationery makes the perfect gift for the newlyweds in your life...or yourself!



